At first I felt ridiculous, but after understanding the reasons, I lamented: It makes sense!

A few days ago, I took a small orange to go to the Taekwondo class. I cleaned up his small room. I don’t know how to clean up, I found out that the toys at home can be sold.

Take his favorite toy car, battery, rechargeable, remote control, bulldozer, big truck, everything, even two sets of crayons that are not usually used, there are a bunch of rubber, pencil sharpener, Picture book... According to this posture, it is impossible to graduate from the University of Orange.

Later, when I was inquired, other friends’ homes were similar to my family. Some even had too many things. They were put directly into the storage box and stuffed them to the bottom of the bed. They didn’t open once a year.

Chinese parents are like this. They want to give everything to their children. In fact, in the process of educating children, the less these three things are given, the better they are.

First, the less clothes, the more focused the child

Some mothers' biggest hobby is to buy clothes for their children. They usually go shopping and see good-looking purchases. When they see the right clothes on the Internet, they can buy them. Even if their clothes have piled up into mountains, they can't help but buy them.

Every time I cleaned, I saw a wardrobe full of clothes, I would calm down and feel that I was too impulsive.

Japanese psychologists suggest that children over the age of 4 do not need more than 5 sets of clothes per season, and about 3 sets can fully meet the needs of children.

Because of the many choices, it also brings a downside, that is, the child's concentration will be lower.

A neat room that allows children to focus more on play and exploration. And a messy room filled with clothes and toys, not only makes people feel depressed, but also makes it easy for children to develop cockroaches and do not understand the bad habits of storage.

Looking back now, why do many children in elementary school always go to class and write homework? This is also related to "choosing confusion". Before going to school, they distracted in front of piles of toys. After school, the problem of distraction will definitely be reflected in learning.

It is recommended that parents should buy clothes for their children with less and less precision. Don't buy a bunch of cheap, poor quality clothes for the sake of cheaper. The quality of life is so improved.

"More confusing, less sensible." When we provide materials to children, we should follow the principle of being small and precise.

Everything is used to its fullest use, so that it can bring more happiness and satisfaction to children.

Second, the fewer shoes, the better for children

When our generation was young, the family was generally not very good. Only when the New Year was over, we could put on new shoes. After three days, we had to wash our shoes and continue to wear them in the coming year.

It is because of this little regret that when we have children, we are not willing to treat him again.

All the clothes and shoes that children like, as long as they are properly worn, will definitely be bought.

In fact, no matter whether you have money or not, you should not buy too many shoes for your child. Because the more shoes, the development of the child's brain is more disadvantageous. Why do you say that?

There are more shoes, and the children feel that the shoes can be worn before going out. It seems that the shoes can be worn as well.

It is more natural to choose more concerns, and to develop an indecisive character, to deal with things is not decisive, this is a fatal shortcoming for boys.

With fewer shoes, the child will think the night before:

What kind of clothes do you wear with these shoes? How do you wear them to look better?

After a long time, a pair of shoes can have countless kinds of wearing methods, and the clever heads are so inadvertently cultivated. Moreover, if there are fewer shoes, the children will be more cherished.

It is recommended that the parent, the children's shoes on the shoe rack should not exceed 3 pairs.

When you buy clothes, you can bring your child together, ask his opinions, let him think more; when changing seasons, change 3 pairs of shoes.

Third, the fewer toys, the happier the child

I went to the cousin's house once and saw the niece sitting on the ground playing with toys. When she first entered the door, she saw that she was changing clothes for Barbie. If the clothes were not worn, she took the Rubik's Cube and turned it a few times...

The cousin asked her to play with her brother. I didn't expect my son to play with the blocks. The prostitute also came to play with the blocks. The son played the Rubik's Cube and she grabbed it to play...

The cousin felt very embarrassed. In the past, she said to her niece: "You are a sister, you let your younger brother, he wants to play something for him to choose first." But it has no effect, as long as the little oranges play, the prostitute wants to play. The cousin was very angry: "How are you so greedy, eating the bowl and looking at the pot!" The niece cried awkwardly!

In fact, the niece is not greedy, but when she chooses more, she will find it 100% happy from these toys.

For example, when she was playing Rubik's Cube, she thought about it, waiting for me to play with the blocks; thinking about it while playing with the blocks, it seems interesting to comb the Barbie dolls...

The more she chooses, the more she can't enjoy the joy of the toy, and the happiness is reduced.

American Virginia scholars recommend no more than five toys. One for each type, such as graffiti (brush), musical toy (harmony), sports (remote control), etc., only let the child play once, so that the value of the toy is maximized.

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